Dating & Dynamics

Modern Dating Is Hard? You’re Just Dumb. (Luckily, the Genius Has a Solution)

By Say What You Want · October 2, 2026 · 6 min read


Most people enter modern dating with an audition mindset: 'Do they like me? What should I say to keep them interested?' This creates an anxious energy that invites performative dynamics on both sides...

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